Three years ago, I posted about a random idea I had for an articles club. An articles club would be just like a book club, I wrote, But well read articles. Wed all read the same storyfrom, say, The New Yorker or Elleand chat over wine and snacks. It would be fascinating, timely and a much easier commitment than a book club (because, honestly, who ever finishes the book on time?). And it would make the winter feel fun. Well, my friend Anna and I started one, and heres what its like…
The evening starts at 7:30pm, so Toby can stay up a few minutes late and say hi to the ladies. He gets to eat some guacamole and chips and tell a few jokes before padding off to bed.
He always tries to sneak in a few extra minutes:)
Then the evening begins! We discuss the article and share anecdotes and philosophies. We also drink wine and eat snacks, of course.
We usually choose an article that feels relevant to our livestypically about friendship, career, work/life balance or relationships.
The fascinating thing about an articles club is how close you get toand how much you learn aboutthe women in the group. The conversations get intimate pretty quicklyweve talked about marriage, breakups, parenting, career goals, what success means, the saddest and happiest times in our lives, depression, body image, aging, feminism, religion, everything under the sun. Ive learned things about my friends that I hadnt known after years and years of friendship, since we end up talking about such specific, deep topics. Its wonderful.
Here are some of the articles weve chosen:
Those Arent Fighting Words, Dear
The Busy Trap
Why Is It Hard to Make Friends Over 30?
Surprised to See Me: The biggest shock of losing weight is the (sometimes weird) reaction by my old friends
Why We Cheat
Is There Life After Work?
Why Its Smart to Court Your Friends
How to Be Polite
Masters of Love
Would you ever set up an articles club? Theyre so much fun and the best part is you can read the article on the way to the club! I always leave buzzing from the female friendships. 🙂