When you’re out with your man, enjoying the night, and a slightly-too-friendly girl comes out of nowhere with laser eyes set on him, it’s never a pleasant experience. But it’s one that happens all too frequently, and while it’s hard to simmer down that boiling rage, there are techniques you can use to stay zen and keep your cool. Bae will be impressed, and your confidence will trump any desperate lady with sights on your guy.
1. Make sure after it happens that you slide into a conversation it bothers you when other girls flirt with your man. Be honest, but don’t lecture him. That can turn an innocent and harmless flirtation into a cause for a huge fight.
2. Don’t respond with jealousy. Being mature about it will impress your man, and automatically make you the bigger person. Visible jealousy leads to cat fights. Talk to your man later, keep your beauty pageant face on to avoid an ugly situation.
3. Start flirting with him right back. He’ll remember how sexy it was when you first started dating and forget all about the innocent flirtation that momentarily stood in your way.
4. Confront her in a low key, calm and respectful way. You’re not angry, you’re just letting her know that she’s not hitting on a single man, so her actions aren’t welcome. Keep it classy when you do this and don’t start a fight.